getting paid that is non-consensual and no one cares do read people’s ad copy or websites almost all of the answers to your questions will be there and if someone says no to you let’s know do not speak explicitly via email or text obviously that’s not a smart idea when you’re doing an activity that is a frowned upon by the law definitely not the how much for a and blah blah blah like just basically spelling out illegal activities that is so sketchy it’s always best to provide all the information that’s asked for in the first email that would be your name if that person screens which I do I definitely have like code of conduct that worked for me then I do not speak for other sex workers for sure do not negotiate or rates cash is always green cash is always king get it together go to the bank we’ve taken the time to get ready for you and to set up time for you and it takes a lot of time to do this you should take the time to go to the bank like a big boy I’ve had people show up just assuming that I took PayPal payments PayPal is notorious for shutting down sex workers
and you can cancel a payment and right after not paying a sex worker is rape you’ve tricked someone into having sex
with you that is not a true consent a lot of us will offer you a shower and you come in don’t decline that’s so rude we shower then like our about to get really intimate with you that’s like the
least you can do don’t make dead hooker
jokes if you’re interested in any kind of BDSM you must talk about this before communicate do not make assumptions very long time ago had someone like hit me in the face in the middle of session you know and like everything stopped he’s like oh I thought you do this in movies so I thought it was okay and I’m like guess what not the point stars they won’t necessarily do everything that they do in the movies that is a whole other situation not the same thing we’re also not mind reader’s so if you have a specific idea and mind and you come in and we don’t fulfill it because youn didn’t say anything that’s on you you are not buying a person you are not buying a body you’re buying a service there’s this like selling your body thing that really irritates the out of me I take my body home at the end of the day I do have not given it to anybody I have not sold my autonomy it is still there you’re paying for a service but it does not an all-access pass do whatever you want you’re still interacting with human